We, as women, have all been called a “man-hater” a time, or two in our lives. It is a term that describes a woman with boundaries and demands more for herself than some men think she deserves. The more respect she requires, the more she is “definitely committed” to fending off the opposite sex. Comical, yet disturbing.
Why is it that women are accused of overreacting when they refuse to laugh at a sexist comment, or a thoughtless remark? Why are we labeled “frigid” just because we can’t forget all the sins committed against us during the day, fast enough, for you to enjoy our bodies at bedtime? Let me get this straight… we are to act as mindless idiots with no feelings, or standards, just so you can have your pleasure when needed? You are not required to put forth any effort during the day, to ensure affection in the evening? Is your sex life that stagnant and motionless, where you are in no need of any current, or flow?
Women are not cattle. We are not bred for your needs. We are not to be used up, then deemed useless when the gray hairs start showing up and we stop flowing every month. Here, I’ll put it in the most simple way I can for you… you are not getting laid because you are lazy and ignorant.
Women have needs, just like you. Why do men feel we can go for days without constructive conversation, any show of affection, or appreciation, and still stir desire within us at a snap of a finger? You purposely starve our fires of passion of any oxygen, then complain about the smoldering embers as they die. You were in charge of tending to that fire. You let the flames go out. You didn’t do your job. Quit laying the blame on us.
You require attention. You require recognition. You require answers to your questions. You wish for us to respect you and your needs. Then, why should women not require the same? Who told you that we are less? Who told you that we won’t remember anything you say to us, and are numb to any pain?
Teach yourself some manners and get educated. Until then, I will remain a “man-hater”. I will not stoop to your level of disrespect, while expecting respect in return. I will not look the other way, with my eyes, ears, and lips closed. I was given a voice, an opinion, and you, dear sir, are going to hear it.
The above is an excerpt from my new book LIVING WITH THE ENEMY, available on Amazon. Thank you for reading. 😊
The Musings Of An Angry Woman 