Author Archives: The Musings Of an Angry Woman

Have you heard? I’m back at square one again. After 4 glorious years in solitude and self-healing, I made the crazy decision to share a home with the one person I needed to get away from. I mean, I just figured 4 years was long enough to get over any idea of romance and love…right?Continue reading “Here We Go Again…”

New Year…New me…hopefully? I’d like to believe that this year’s lessons in love and life will teach me to be a better person. I am willing to look past all the lies and make-believe shit that I’ve been told, and act like I can move on from it and still be a friend, but honestly,Continue reading “Happy New Year!”

I am another year older today. 57 years old, to be exact. Instead of being a little freaked out at the number of years I have already been on this earth, I can’t help but think that the next twenty are going to be filled with many firsts. We all wait for our first ofContinue reading “Another Trip Around the Sun”

I have decided to turn my news channel off. I will not fill my living room up with hate and despair any longer. Will that make all the problems of the world go away? No. But I do not have to invite them into my home front and center. I’m going to decide to careContinue reading “Here’s the Thing…”

I plan to do a lot of things. I meticulously set a date and write down everything hour by hour, on what is to be expected on that particular day. And guess what? More than often, it all turns to shit! I have a Type A personality. Or so I’ve been told. I don’t thinkContinue reading “Planning”

Have you ever Googled your name? I suggest doing it at least once in your lifetime. Google will show all the accomplishments and what you are known for. Google will also show you the not-so-glamorous things you are known for too. Especially if you have a few marks on your naughty list. But what GoogleContinue reading “What Does Google Know About You?”

When a woman starts to draw boundaries and demand more for herself, it is almost surely because she has started to develop a hatred toward men. I mean, that is the concensus I get from men, so it must be true. The more respect she requires, the more she is committed to fending off the oppositeContinue reading “Man-hater”

We are going to revisit Chapter 7 in my book, THE CALCINATION OF A VOLATILE LIFE. It talks about how we are brainwashed into thinking there is someone out there that is just for us. The perfect person that will complement our life and make us feel whole again. UGH! Why can’t you be wholeContinue reading “The Perfect Soulmate Doesn’t Exist”

Now that I’m older, I have noticed more and more how couples who have remained married for 20+ years, seem to never speak to each other. Seriously! You’ll see them out together at a restaurant and the only time they say anything is when they place their order. They sit through the whole meal inContinue reading “The Power of Silence”

The number one rule when deciding to stay with the narcissist is to expect the unexpected without expecting too much. It’s a rule you need to live by. Because the more you expect out of that person, the more you will be disappointed in the end. Stop breaking your own heart with visions of themContinue reading “Expect Nothing”