Today, we are going to talk about how you need to pick your battles and learn to just save your breath when it comes to expressing your concerns or needs to the narc. You will learn it is just not worth your precious time. Because, the fact is, they really don’t care. They will useContinue reading “Save Your Breath”
Author Archives: The Musings Of an Angry Woman
The Things You Need to Know And Avoid
I am going to share with you, in this episode, the things that you can avoid and the things you need to expect when living with a narc. We can’t always just walk out the door at any given moment. It takes planning. It takes preparation. And until then, you need to take action inContinue reading “The Things You Need to Know And Avoid”
The Bad Days
We all have bad days, but somehow, when you live with a narcissist, the bad days just seem worse. They like to prey on you when you’re already down. They like to strike when they know you’re stressed, worried, or ill. This is why you can’t express any of this to the narc. If youContinue reading “The Bad Days”
Let’s Try a Different Approach
I am taking a new approach in life. It will be similar in helping to strengthen your confidence and see your worth. But it will also show the steps that you can take to live a somewhat normal life while dealing with a narcissist. Because let’s face facts. Sometimes just walking out the door andContinue reading “Let’s Try a Different Approach”
Respect
I hear it all the time. I hear how the youth of today has no respect. No respect for their older generation. No respect for their authority figures. No respect for the rules. And yes…we ALL have more liberties these days and are able to speak up about things we don’t agree with. But doesContinue reading “Respect”
The Wish List
What is your wish list for yourself? What is constantly knocking at your door, waiting for you answer? I have several wishes. To successfully earn my own money while working for myself. To travel to another country. To purchase my own home. To weed out everything in my life that is not serving me. HaveContinue reading “The Wish List”
Are You Enough For You?
I recently saw a quote on Instagram asking, “Are you enough for you?” Are you? The most intense critic you will ever find during your lifetime will be you. That little voice that whispers, “you can do better.” The you that knows you are slacking. The you that knows you need to put more effortContinue reading “Are You Enough For You?”
Keep Starting Over
Happy Day Three of 2022. How’s it going? Are you practicing what you promised yourself you would do at the start of the new year? Or do you deem it impossible already, and are ready to ditch the effort? I might also ask if the resolution at hand was for yourself, or did you jumpContinue reading “Keep Starting Over”
Getting To Know a Complete Stranger
How many of you out there are on the healing journey? The search for your inner child. The painstaking work involved. Reliving past traumas to better understand your triggers. The rewind of your life events to find the exact moment in time where you lost yourself. We have two choices in life. Stay as weContinue reading “Getting To Know a Complete Stranger”
The Day After
There’s something about the day after Christmas. We start to come down from the sugar highs, and the feel-good hormones released from gift-giving and receiving. We wake up the next day feeling numb and it’s back to reality. The work schedule resumes as normal, and the chore of cleaning up after the splendid day begins.Continue reading “The Day After”