CHAPTER 6: Stop Playing Small

Do you ever find yourself downplaying your accomplishments, as to not appear you’re bragging or gloating to others? Or how about when you don’t expose how you really feel about a subject. Have you ever paid attention to how you talk to strangers, versus talking to yourself sometimes? We are our own worst critics! WeContinue reading “CHAPTER 6: Stop Playing Small”

Chapter 3: Mistakes Are Meant To Be Repeated

In this chapter, I talk about repeating patterns, and how we sometimes just match on to someone just so we aren’t alone. I have since learned that being alone, was the best thing for my heart, mind, and soul. It allows healing to take place with no distraction of “love”, that may not be genuineContinue reading “Chapter 3: Mistakes Are Meant To Be Repeated”

Chapter 1: When Things Get Bad, They Can Only Get Worse

I’ve decided to share my book, The Calcination Of A Volatile Life, to this blog and my podcast. I will be posting 2 chapters per week. I believe in sharing what I’ve learned about myself, in the hopes that my experiences may help someone else in their life. Please excuse some background noise here andContinue reading “Chapter 1: When Things Get Bad, They Can Only Get Worse”

MY REPURPOSED LIFE

Who doesn’t like to find that one-of-a-kind item and find a completely different use than what it was created for? I love searching Goodwills and Saint Vinny’s, or garage sale cast-offs, looking for items that I can turn into something useful for my home. Today’s Podcast talks about recreating yourself. Coming into the person thatContinue reading “MY REPURPOSED LIFE”

Why I Will Remain Single

I have found that being single isn’t the worst thing that has ever happened in my life. It has actually turned out to be the greatest experience I’ve ever known. And bless all of you in a relationship where you have found someone to compliment your life. But as for me…I think I finally foundContinue reading “Why I Will Remain Single”

Sometimes The Door Can Only Squeeze One Through

How many of you are trying to make changes in your life while holding on to everything you have now?  Sometimes change means letting go. Sometimes you have to walk it alone because there is only room for one.  Are you going to let the door of opportunity close because it’s only slightly ajar, whereContinue reading “Sometimes The Door Can Only Squeeze One Through”

Grieving The Loss Of Someone Who Never Existed

  We’ve all been there. And it’s crushing. When that person turns out to be not who you thought they were. You were in love with a fake all along. Someone who pretended to be your soulmate. Your friend. And now you are angry and sad at the same time. How will you ever trustContinue reading “Grieving The Loss Of Someone Who Never Existed”

Stop Explaining Yourself

  Even though I know all the steps to take in a more confident life, I still find myself getting triggered by those that may not have as much faith in my life choices. Their little snide remarks made under their breath, still cause me to feel the need to explain myself to people thatContinue reading “Stop Explaining Yourself”

What If Change Changes Everything?

  We’ve all heard change is good. I live my life based on this rule. But change can also mean loss. Not only the loss of your old life but everyone that was in it. When finding friendship in others we seem to choose people with like interests.  People that we don’t have to explainContinue reading “What If Change Changes Everything?”