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Why We Write

I was reading a book that I had uncovered while decluttering my collected array of crap I have in my home, written by Charles Frazier. I know I only bought it for the color and age that complimented by decor, but for some reason I decided to open it up and take a look. About…

What is Happening?

I made a comment online last night on how I have felt freer as not only a woman, but as a US citizen, in the not so-distant past, versus the present craziness surrounding us. Well how dare I! I guess the current administration is the savior we have all been waiting for, therefore, I need…

Is Losing Steam a Bad Thing?

I don’t know about you, but I have become the type of person that if I don’t remain steadfast and driven on a particular project, I lose steam and interest. I used to be the person who had many irons in the fire, but was able to get each project ironed out in no time…

And Men Call Us Crazy

You ever notice how all of the women that are called crazy are with assholes for men? Like literally, she sits there afraid to show any emotion or defend her honor while he spews his accusations of her insanity to anyone that is listening. How can she ever let him touch her again? How do…

A Woman’s Belief in Better

This blog is going to be a touchy subject for some. Mostly the men. Even though I am the mother of three amazing men, I know how ego plays a strong part in a closed mind. Some men prefer to believe that they are superior in everything and close their mind and ears to anything…

When Is Enough Enough?

I feel I have enabled long enough. I know it is partly my fault in giving a person one hundred chances, looking the other way, pretending that actions don’t matter and just concentrating on the false promises and words spoken…but in my defense I just did it in the name of love. Love for a…

Mean Girls

At one time, I surrounded myself with some not-so-nice people. I have mentioned in earlier posts, that at the time of my divorce, I was trying to fit back into the social scene. I started going back uptown and was on the search for my people. What I found was a mix of different personalities,…

No Contact

I have read all the books and follow the advice of social media influencers who are equipped with experience and knowledge on how to handle the narcissist, but there is only one thing different…it’s my mother. My aging mother, I might add. Who hasn’t seen the error of her ways and shows no signs of…

Religion Is Not A Weapon

FORGIVE. The bible tells us over and over again to forgive others. To “turn the other cheek” and allow the abuse to continue. Hmmm…I’m not seeing where that is a helpful hint on how to live a peaceful and happy life. I’m not sure if the Bible is a credible piece of advice, when it…

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